I'm Kali. I'm 23 from New York, living in NJ. I'm an introvert, Scorpio, trying to make it in the world. Conscious feminist learning and unlearning shit every day. Fandoms are: Hannibal, Harry Potter, Dexter, Attack On Titan, Cowboy Bebop, Sleepy Hollow, Sherlock, and so on and so on. Please enjoy the random mishmash of shit that I like that my blog houses.
I have a 'serious' blog here: whore-for-words.tumblr.com and a NSFW blog that you can ask for the URL to.
honestly about 95% of the reason people don’t view sansa as having “grown” or “gotten stronger” as a character over the course of the series is because typically emotional/intellectual growth isn’t interpreted as “real growth” and emotional/intellectual strength isn’t considered “real strength”…
also neither of these things are seen as truly “useful” so sansa herself is labeled as “useless.”
I actually genuinely love dealing with angry and aggressive customers because it’s SO funny. They always come in with a specific level of energy and they expect whoever they deal with to be scared of them and then when I’m clearly not physically or emotionally intimidated they get SO flustered and start doing the weirdest shit to regain power in the situation. Like there’s absolutely nothing you could do to me in this coffee shop that would ever even make my Top 10 Scariest Interactions With People but by all means, keep faking that phone call to your boss who apparently knows the Starbucks mermaid personally.
I also love doing it because I know all my coworkers can get really upset when people treat them like that, which is totally understandable. So instead because they know I don’t mind they’ll just call me in and then gather round to watch like it’s a boxing match
Lady Gaga: Oh I was doing all of these things with R Kelly in a PTSD-induced haze 😔 When I said we had a bond and our collaboration was natural that was just me battling with my demons 😔 When I said we both suffer from the press reporting untrue things about us I was just grappling with being a survivor 😔 (Go see my movie) 😔 When I didn’t mention R Kelly during my #MeToo speeches that was just (spins wheel) patriarchy 😔
Vogue, twitter scholars, every mainstream American publication: She is so brave. She is so fearless. This will promote change.
Today I called a girl homophobic as a joke and she almost started crying
She said “my neighbors are a lesbian couple! I’m the least homophobic person you’ll ever meet”
I said “Kelsea I’m really sorry I hurt your feelings but I need you to know that homophobic people can have lesbian neighbors” and she just got even more distraught and said “I’ve been inside their house and I wasn’t even afraid or anything”
the other night i tried to make a curry and i got chilli burns all over my face, so i thought to myself ‘hang on, doesn’t milk soothe chilli burns? it does’ and i couldn’t google because i couldn’t see so i just had to blindly feel my way to the fridge and pour out a bowl of milk, and then plant my face in the bowl of milk, anyway at that point the rice cooker went off and triggered a power surge which turned my electricity off, which i didn’t notice at first because i had my face in a bowl of milk and when i did emerge from the dairy prison i thought i had gone blind with chilli burns. so no i don’t really cook much.